Preschool is Important!
The preschool experience prepares children for a lifetime of learning. In preschool children are introduced to concepts in a fun relaxed environment. Children see that learning is exciting and they want to learn more.
Preschool children develop social skills needed to get along with others and become independent. Sharing, taking turns, problem solving, and language development are part of the daily routine.
Preschool gives children a jump-start to kindergarten. They develop pre-reading skills, pre-math skills, science and social studies skills. Children develop an understanding of listening and following directions as a group. These behaviors are important for kindergarten readiness.
Preschool is a time to play! Play is essential for all children's healthy growth and development. Play:
Enables children to make
sense of their world.Develops social and cultural
understandings.Allows children to express
their thoughts and feelings.Fosters flexible and
divergent thinking.Provides opportunities to
meet and solve real problems.Develops language and
literacy skills and concepts.
Monday, March 30, 2009
Why Is Preschool Important?
Thursday, March 26, 2009
You May Have Noticed Things Changing
Monday, March 23, 2009
How to Potty Train and More
(click here for more info) How to Potty Train a Toddler? |
You have decided it is time to get your toddler out of diapers and so you are trying to figure out how you are going to potty train your child. If this is your story, then you are definitely in the right part of our web site!
I often get calls and emails from parents who are having potty training problems - they have been potty training their toddler for days, weeks or months and they just want to get do the end of this journey. They just want to get this potty training milestone out of the way!
One of the first questions I ask is how are you potty training - or more specifically, whatmethod are using to potty your child?
I usually get a slight pause and then I got all sorts of answers. Amy Blanchard's Potty Training Troubles is an example of the types of calls and email I get.
So, after counseling many parents over the phone and via email, I decided it was time to write down the "how to potty train" formula!
Follow these three steps and you will have your toddler potty trained in no time.
Make sure your child is ready to be potty trained
Make sure that YOU the parent are ready as well.
Get all the potty training "tools" or "equipment" that you will need to accomplish this job.
Notice, I did not say 3 simple steps - because they are not simple - but if you take the advice to heart and follow through on the details laid out in each step, especially step number 2, you should have a lot of success with potty training.
If after reading the article, you have not found the answers you were look for, try the following areas for additional help, advice and information on the various aspects of potty training.
Potty Training Problems
If you have already started potty training and are having problems with resistance,regression or bed wetting, then this is the section for you.
Potty Training Message Board & Community
Want to know what other parents are doing? How do other parents go about potty training? When did they start potty training their toddler?
This area of the web site not only gives you the opportunity to interact with other parents like yourself, it gives a place to have some fun! Enter our contest to win prizes, participate in our potty training polls or meet and chat with our potty training experts!
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Tuesday, March 10, 2009
http://www.parenting.com/article/Baby/Development/Separation-Anxiety-Age-by-Age/2

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Until they were 11 months old, my twin boys were so nonchalant whenever I'd leave the room that they seemed like a couple of teenagers. As I'd head off to work, the boys would glance my way, then resume chewing on their barnyard animals or playing with their babysitter. They seemed to be thinking, "Eh, catch you later, Mom -- whatever." I figured: Phew! We dodged all the separation-anxiety drama that had stressed out so many of my friends. (Hey, maybe we'd get lucky and bypass the terrible twos, too!)
But then one morning, reality struck big-time. As I opened the door to leave, Ian, the small, scrappy one, began rolling around the floor, wailing as if stricken by food poisoning. Toby, his chubby, gentle brother, clung to my leg, bawling so hard he could barely breathe. I was heartbroken, and totally flummoxed. I had no clue why it was happening or what approach would be easiest on the boys.
"Separation anxiety can happen almost overnight, which makes it shocking to parents," says Sara Abbot, associate director of the Family Resource Counseling Center in Los Angeles. What's more, it's often not just a one-time, babyhood phase for many kids. The tears and fears related to being apart from Mom or Dad can resurface in the toddler and preschool years, posing new challenges for parents and warranting different
solutions. As disheartening as that may sound, it can be very helpful to remember that separation anxiety is completely normal, even healthy. "From the earliest years of life, we should want children to encounter ordinary adversity because it's practice for building resilience," says Aaron Cooper, Ph.D., coauthor of I Just Want My Kids to Be Happy! Why You Shouldn't Say It.... Fortunately, there's plenty you can do to minimize your child's angst, as well as your own, along the way.
the first strike: babyhood
Though the timing can vary from child to child, separation anxiety typically first hits around 8 months, when babies suddenly grasp that their parents exist apart from them, says Abbot. "Literally, it's like, boom! They understand you can leave." They don't, however, understand that you're coming back. This anxiety may last several weeks, or even a few months, until your child realizes that you're not, in fact, abandoning him for life -- you're just going to the bathroom.
how to get through it:
start early By 6 months, introduce your baby to other regular caregivers, such as relatives or a babysitter. "Your child needs practice being away from you, hopefully well before preschool," says Alex Barzvi, Ph.D., clinical director of the New York University Child Study Center's Institute for Anxiety and Mood Disorders. "You want someone else to hold and talk to your kid a little differently." These experiences may minimize her anxiety later on when you're not around.
keep your goodbye short A quick "Bye, James, see you this afternoon!" is ideal. "Prolonging the departure gives your child the idea that there's something to be afraid of," Barzvi says. But here's the really tough part: Try not to let the sobbing lure you back. Reappearing after you've left only gives your child incentive to cry harder and longer next time.
match your body language to your words "Your child can sense your confidence as you walk out the door," Cooper says. Flash a smile, give a cheerful wave. You'll be faking it, of course, but she won't know that yet. She'll just know that you feel good about who she's with -- and she can, too.
avoid sneaking off Parents often dash out the door when the child isn't looking, hoping -- understandably! -- that this will preempt a meltdown. "But that's tricking your child, and it can break your child's trust in you," Barzvi says. Instead, first ask your caregiver to redirect your child's attention right after you leave with a favorite toy, a game of peekaboo, or some new music (whatever), then say your quick goodbye.
Raising a Bookworm

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And listening to you helps your baby become familiar with the flow and basic rules of language. In fact, experts say that kids who are read to regularly have an easier time learning to read later on.
Try to read together for a few minutes every day so your baby comes to expect and look forward to storytime as she grows. Books with big illustrations are easy on little eyes, and touch-and-feel ones are fun, too: Just run her hands over the textures if she can't do it by herself. (Don't be discouraged if she's more interested in chewing on the pages than touching them, though: Part of the way babies learn about objects is by putting them in their mouths.)
"The most important thing is to communicate that reading is a satisfying and rewarding experience," says Martin. "Learning to read won't be easy, but you can start teaching your baby that it's worth it."
Monday, March 9, 2009
Poisson Rouge: Great Internet Site For Preschoolers

